by anonymous February 17, 2025

when cuddling, and the big spoon is smaller than the little spoon so they hug you from behind like a backpack
by silkypjs January 24, 2023

A portable bag worn on your back. You can store multiple things inside of it. There is no sexual definition. What were you expecting?
by pro urban September 22, 2022

by Ask27 May 11, 2020

by Telfar July 29, 2022

Girl: Don’t you just love eating backpacks on a nice summer day?
Boy: Yeah! It’s the best thing ever!
Boy: Yeah! It’s the best thing ever!
by whyamidoingthisrightnow November 10, 2019

An alternative terminology to the traditional "big spoon" and "little spoon." Couples who argue over spooning positions may use this without disregarding convention if the smaller partner feels more comfortable cuddling from behind, with "backpack" implying that someone smaller would be strapped around the bigger partner as if they were a normal sized backpack, which is typically smaller than the individual.
Partner 1: Can I be the small spoon tonight? You always make me the big spoon and it feels wrong, ok?
Partner 2: No honey it's ok. You're the backpack spoon.
Partner 2: No honey it's ok. You're the backpack spoon.
by redditgod November 4, 2024
