The act of giving the consent while pretending not to consent (in BDSM). This term was coined by Biaman Basu in The Commerce of Peoples: Sadomasochism and African American Literature. This action involves two participants and their willing to test the waters. For example, one partner pretends not to like being tied up while the other pretends to force it. Another example, in literature, is reading a text that is fragmented and irritating, but still stimulating. Both parties agree ahead of time as to what lines cannot be crossed, but can still be taunted, and as always, a safe word is used to ensure protection.
Before the play scene:
Bob: I'm going to beg you to stop whipping me, but please don't.
Sally: Ok, I've got your consensual nonconsensuality.
During the play scene:
Bob: Oh Sally! Please stop! You are hurting me!
(Sally doesn't stop)
Bob: I'm going to beg you to stop whipping me, but please don't.
Sally: Ok, I've got your consensual nonconsensuality.
During the play scene:
Bob: Oh Sally! Please stop! You are hurting me!
(Sally doesn't stop)
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experience of meaning independent of language 2 :the
displacement of language by means of imagination 3 :a
way of describing meaning that occurs when the object
of perception - be it a person or a thing - is engaged
without depending on points of reference governed by
laws of association 4 :the Fine Art movement (founded
3/1978; established 2/2000) associated to this term:
noncommunication 5 :non-referential perception leading
to a first time experience of self through the object perceived. noncommuicative objects
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