side

A gay man who enjoys foreplay, such as kissing, cuddling, manual stimulation, fellatio, and analingus, but not actual sex.

As with anything, discuss any risks and comfort levels with any potential partner(s) prior to having sex. Have real conversations. It’s okay to like what you like and not like what you don’t, as long as you don’t mislead anyone.

“Are you a top, a bottom, or vers?
“I’m more of a side.”

by alternabear June 17, 2018

on the side

Having an extra sex partner. Having sex with a friend as in friend with benefits while in a relationship with someone else.

I like fucking him on the side, just like I like ordering my salad dressing on the side.

by Frisco Stories October 8, 2008

Sided

When you help someone in studying for an exam they have no clue about and they end up with a way better grade than you.

Person 1: "Help me! I don't know how to do this problem!"
Person 2: "Fine, I'll help you out."
*one day later, after the exam*
Person 1: " So how did you do, I got a 73?"
Person 2: "That's it? i got a 92!"
Person 1: "Damn it! Sided again!"

by durejavu March 6, 2019

on-the-side

a) someone's sidekick

b) an offensive term for someone's mistress or lover

If you want an on-the-side definition b), don't be in a classical ltr; look for an open relationship instead.

by Sexydimma June 5, 2015

on the side

Having a sexual relationship with a person outside of one's primary, emotional relationship.

See, mistress.

"Hey man, I heard you were getting a little action on the side! Did you nail her?"

by Nathan V. October 1, 2008

on-the-side

a) humorous, someone's sidekick

b) (very offensive): someone's mistress or lover.

I'd rather have an on-the-side definition a) than an on-the-side definition b)

by Sexydimma December 8, 2014

Side-by-side

(n) or (v)The act of two men (gay, bi, straight) laying "side-by-side" and giving each other "hand jobs" and/or masturbating them selves. With three people this could be referred to as "skiing". See other terms such as Ohio State Cheerleader for examples.

"Wow Nate did you hear about Joey and that random doing a 'side-by-side' in Arizona ?" , " I always enjoy a good "side-by-side" at the fiesta bowl. "

by UT4EVA February 19, 2009