Coined by Dan Savage. “Tolerating polyamory”. To be in a polyamorous relationship but only tolerating it. Not to be confused with “poly under duress” or PUD.
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A relationship style or mindset where a person is tolerant of polyamory but does not necessarily participate in it themselves. Someone who practices tolyamory may support or accept a partner having multiple romantic or intimate relationships while personally remaining monogamous or emotionally exclusive.
“I’m not poly, but I’m okay with my partner dating other people — I guess you could call that tolyamory.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
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Also spelled talyavitis
Definition- Inflammation of the cunt causing extreme bitchiness and displeasure to all exposed sexually. Most people that carry the infection tend to spread it knowingly. There is no known cure for this infection, the best known suppressant is a swift kick to the groin followed by a curbstomp.
Symptoms include:
Over sized sombreros
Terrible driving ability
Low self-esteem
Poor taste in music
A strong urge to complain about absolutely everything
Irrational need for attention
Vaginal rash/herpes
Desire to suck everyone's dick
General stupidity.
Also spelled talyavitis
Definition- Inflammation of the cunt causing extreme bitchiness and displeasure to all exposed sexually. Most people that carry the infection tend to spread it knowingly. There is no known cure for this infection, the best known suppressant is a swift kick to the groin followed by a curbstomp.
Symptoms include:
Over sized sombreros
Terrible driving ability
Low self-esteem
Poor taste in music
A strong urge to complain about absolutely everything
Irrational need for attention
Vaginal rash/herpes
Desire to suck everyone's dick
General stupidity.
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