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“I hang with the boys all day because all other girls start drama, it’s not because I’m a pick me girl I’m just different” -allison
by plobae June 16, 2022
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pick-me boy

A male who pays attention to female dominated interests such as pretty boy kpop bands, girl crush concepts, and alpha female rappers such as Jessi or Hyolyn. He does it to seek approval, similarly to pick-me girls who pretend to like cars, sports, and dark humor to appear more desirable.
After I posted a link to my playlist, the masses of pick-me boys wouldn't hesitate to slide in.
by OffensiveKpopFan November 2, 2023
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Pick Me Girl

Molly Fellenz in a nut shell
I shouldn’t need to list a reason you know why Molly is a pick me girl
by Cam_Daddy April 18, 2022
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Pick Me

A woman who puts/talks down on other women in order to make herself seem better.
"It's shameful how Megan Thee Stallion and Cardi B have no respect for themselves," Amy sighed, watching the two women perform W.A.P at the 2021's Grammys, "They are hardly wearing clothes and have the audacity to dance like this on national television. And seeing how women strive to be them, looks like I'll be the only women left to truly love and respect myself."

"Amy, please go to hell and stop being a Pick Me," her friend, Joselin replied.
by titi_kusha April 16, 2022
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Usage:
Shaming:
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like psychopathic chickens; exploitative or despising men, want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men they've 'trained' to be an expendable utility. Destructive to any other relationship, that doesn't give them attention or follow imposed template - normalizing hers, they'd probably call you that.
Popularized on tiktok - a mental institution catalog / personal diary of deranged women.

Hypocrisy call-out:
Virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers.
- You're such a sycophant pick me girl.
- At least I'm not a lazy manhating sadist.
by veinsofgold April 27, 2025
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A girl constanly seeking male attention(Isabella) (mia Leigh)
Person 1: i need a pencil
Person 2: ok ask Isabella
Person 1: nah she is a pick me
Person 2: ok ask mia Leigh
Person 1: shes also a damn pick me
by Darkness652 March 9, 2024
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Some type of girl on Roblox who always needs a man to help her
Pick me girl: oh no!! I'm stuck and I need a man to help *she is clearly not stuck*
Some guy: girl your a pick me-
I did my best example soo
by Cheesiiii May 4, 2025
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