get the grits

Throw a pot of boiling grits on an abusive person (typically a man)

*An abusive groom keeps harassing the bribe-to-be*
Somebody: "If that man keeps hitting you you better *get the grits*"

by stchroma May 28, 2025

the nitty gritty

Another way of saying "the bottom line" or "the basics."

Okay, let's get now to the nitty gritty, now.

by The Doctor October 6, 2004

The Shitty Gritty

When you're at the beach and get a handjob and use sand for extra friction.

"My girl gave me The Shitty Gritty a month ago and my penis is still raw"

by Maverick402 June 15, 2019