A generally derogatory phrase applied to a woman who habitually interacts with men in an overly defensive way via verbal insult, superior attitude, and/or avoidance of "conventional" gender roles possibly (make that probably)due to an underlying fear of being taken advantage of or undervalued (ie; not being taken seriously in an age where both genders compete for the same jobs and the like). The behavior is generally unintentionally hurtful and hypocritical.
I wanted to ask her out, but she changed the subject to business just to prove how much more money she makes. Then I tried to open the door for her, but she rushed to grab the handle first and then let the door shut in my face. Geez, she's such a ball buster.
by Rachel821 September 07, 2007
by matt c November 13, 2003
an individual who instigates, jokes with or tests, someone to make a situation more problematic than what it shopuld be
The only thing I did was hug an old friend in the club and now my wifes being a real ball buster about it.
by ohhhcedric July 30, 2003
by SQ May 07, 2005
by t-bone July 05, 2003
My Wife
one who busts balls one who is controlling. one who makes fun of my flaccid penis. I take Viagra
one who busts balls one who is controlling. one who makes fun of my flaccid penis. I take Viagra
My bitchy wife is a real ball buster
by Jay Dangle November 30, 2004
by Saints November 03, 2004