Someone who tries to get the approval of their oppressors. These people will often throw others from their group under the bus and embrace the oppression against them in an attempt to get attention from the oppressors.
Origin: From the phrase "pick me" which is often yelled by classmates in a classroom in media when their teacher asks a question.
Origin: From the phrase "pick me" which is often yelled by classmates in a classroom in media when their teacher asks a question.
by Shugunou March 20, 2023

by thedictinaryhater November 13, 2016

by poperoni304 September 19, 2023

Another term for a gold digger.
(Gold Digger: A person, generally a woman, whose romantic pursuit of, relationship with, or marriage to a wealthy person is primarily or solely motivated by a desire or pursuit of money or other financial-based gifts or services. An opportunist).
(Gold Digger: A person, generally a woman, whose romantic pursuit of, relationship with, or marriage to a wealthy person is primarily or solely motivated by a desire or pursuit of money or other financial-based gifts or services. An opportunist).
I attended a recent social function and within the first ten minutes of conversation with a woman I had been introduced to I could tell she was nothing more than a pick and shovel girl.
by Who 'Dis? Who 'Dat? August 1, 2023

by prettybiddy February 5, 2020

The term "pick-me" generally refers to a person, typically a woman, who attempts to gain validation from men by appearing to be different from or less threatening to other women, often at the expense of those same women. This validation is often sought through acts or statements that imply they are "not like other girls" and align themselves with male interests or perspectives. The term is often used in a derogatory way, implying that the person is being disingenuous and seeking attention by appearing to be "one of the boys" or superior to other women.
by WHIM WHAMIEE May 14, 2025
