F shaming F:
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like psychopathic chickens; exploitative or despising men, want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men, they've 'trained' to be expendable utilities. Destructive to any other relationship, that neither gives them attention nor follows imposed template - normalizing hers.
Popularized on chicktok.
Hypocrisy call-out:
Equivalent to clingy or virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man, for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers. Or by chasing high SMV man, while claiming it doesn't matter.
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like psychopathic chickens; exploitative or despising men, want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men, they've 'trained' to be expendable utilities. Destructive to any other relationship, that neither gives them attention nor follows imposed template - normalizing hers.
Popularized on chicktok.
Hypocrisy call-out:
Equivalent to clingy or virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man, for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers. Or by chasing high SMV man, while claiming it doesn't matter.
by veinsofgold May 24, 2025
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used to describe the top desired women who men want
used to describe the top desired women who men want
Women A: I want a man who's six feet tall handsome, long d A weekend house with a lot of money he writes poetry.. he’s a thug who lifts weights, fights is a reverend thug gangster, drug dealer scammer, etc. And he gives me all his money and pays all of my bills.
Most women responding: oh girl I want that too you, should have preferences and standards. You shouldn't settle for less you can get that man he's 100% possible and it’s not delusional at all.
Women b. I want a good man that knows his worth. He's kind he's a Potential father and husband. He's doing well by himself his vibe is right he protects and provides for his assets, not his liabilities and I will be submissive and cooperative to him because of that, I want a real decent man who loves himself
Most women respond: oh you will never get that man you're a PICK ME you're a slave I could never. How dare you want a man we can't get you such a pick me… you’re a delusional pick me..
Most women responding are single mothers or older ugly bitter women with no options. Or a combination of all It's never a woman with a good man or high self-esteem bashing other women.
Most women responding: oh girl I want that too you, should have preferences and standards. You shouldn't settle for less you can get that man he's 100% possible and it’s not delusional at all.
Women b. I want a good man that knows his worth. He's kind he's a Potential father and husband. He's doing well by himself his vibe is right he protects and provides for his assets, not his liabilities and I will be submissive and cooperative to him because of that, I want a real decent man who loves himself
Most women respond: oh you will never get that man you're a PICK ME you're a slave I could never. How dare you want a man we can't get you such a pick me… you’re a delusional pick me..
Most women responding are single mothers or older ugly bitter women with no options. Or a combination of all It's never a woman with a good man or high self-esteem bashing other women.
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by Not_abitch January 28, 2026
Get the Pick me mug.The term "Pick-Me girl" is a derogatory word for women used by female incels and radical left extremists, who force their perceived hypocrisy towards them, while always thinking they're right and never wrong, especially regarding social issues like equality and feminism.
Most of the women are unhappy and single who are generelly irresponsible for their own actions and uncapable of taking accountability towards their own actions.
Most of the women are unhappy and single who are generelly irresponsible for their own actions and uncapable of taking accountability towards their own actions.
by JosephineK November 8, 2025
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by Katja40 March 18, 2021
Get the Pick-me mug.A pick-me is a noun used to describe a person, typically a straight man or a woman, who does things to get the attention of an “opposite group”. If it’s a straight woman, they’d say misogynistic stuff and throw other women under the bus to impress a man. Usually they’ll also blame issues caused by men on women such as saying that r@pe is the woman’s fault, not the man’s. In a straight man situation they’d say stuff like “no one likes me” and “of course you leave me like everyone else does”.
This also applies for other groups such as LGBTQ+. An example would be if a group of straight people or a straight person would say something trans- or homophobic and the person of LGBTQ+ would go along with it to get the group or the other person to like them.
Pick me’s are not nice people, their one goal is to get other people to like them.
This also applies for other groups such as LGBTQ+. An example would be if a group of straight people or a straight person would say something trans- or homophobic and the person of LGBTQ+ would go along with it to get the group or the other person to like them.
Pick me’s are not nice people, their one goal is to get other people to like them.
Pick-me woman: “If you don’t want to be r@ped don’t dress like a slut! You were probably asking for it.”
Rational person: “Oh my god, shut up! You’re such a pick-me.”
Rational person: “Oh my god, shut up! You’re such a pick-me.”
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