Not_abitch's definitions

Pick me

When a man/woman is seeking validation from other people for self esteem

That girl has been a pick me to those boys
That guy is trying to get those girls attention-he is such a pick me

by Not_abitch January 28, 2026

People pleaser

A person who is going to do anything to get validation from other people or just trying to fit in

Why does she not try standing out? She is such a people pleaser

she is a people pleaser don’t put too much pressure on her

by Not_abitch January 28, 2026

Mansplaining

A man usually explaining something them themselves don’t know to a woman and calling it good advice and saying they are right.

Man-a period is a biological myth…

Woman-what the absolute shit is going on? Is he actually mansplaining?

by Not_abitch January 28, 2026