The gay bar effect refers to the situations where safe spaces/groups for specific individuals go down hill when another group of people the space was not intended for joins to be away from the people who disrespect the individualises the space/group was intended for who than join in to get to the previous group of people the space was not for causing the space to no longer be safe for the people it was meant to protect.
Similar to how many gay bars meet their demise with straight woman seeking a safe place to get away from the straight & homophobic men who hit on them who than follow them into the gay bars making it no longer a safe place for the community it was meant for as you don't know who's just going to call you a fag on your quest to find a fellow gay man.
Similar to how many gay bars meet their demise with straight woman seeking a safe place to get away from the straight & homophobic men who hit on them who than follow them into the gay bars making it no longer a safe place for the community it was meant for as you don't know who's just going to call you a fag on your quest to find a fellow gay man.
Our Pagan chat room is suffering the gay bar effect as an influx of Catholics storm in to force their beliefs on the atheists who just wanted a safe place away from them.
by 36368876 May 21, 2022
Get the Gay bar effectmug. Getting home after working all day at your sakes job.
A: "How was work?"
B: "Pretty gay. No one hardly came in and I barely sold anything. Pretty much a waste of a day."
When seeing a group of incredibly trendy people being sat two tables away from you, where the first thing they do is take selfies with their sunglasses on.
A: "Thats pretty gay."
A: "How was work?"
B: "Pretty gay. No one hardly came in and I barely sold anything. Pretty much a waste of a day."
When seeing a group of incredibly trendy people being sat two tables away from you, where the first thing they do is take selfies with their sunglasses on.
A: "Thats pretty gay."
by I'm legit February 13, 2021
Get the Gaymug. 
A figurative vest for collecting badges from new queer experiences (first kiss, first flannel, first pride, etc).
I just bought my first flannel and got a septum piercing. I'm totally racking up badges for my Gay Scout vest.
by gayscoutleader October 12, 2022
Get the Gay Scout vestmug. "owo define gay british sex"
"grrr it has no definition"
"you know what, i'll make my own"
"wow I love gay british sex"
"grrr it has no definition"
"you know what, i'll make my own"
"wow I love gay british sex"
by the 28th amendment March 26, 2023
Get the gay british sexmug. 
by sadlemon November 27, 2019
Get the gayedmug.