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Insecure Black Hole

A guy who appears to be absolutely incapable of taking hints, but actually isn't. He just lacks self-confidence and doesn't want to completely embarrass himself by assuming that those hints are real, because he's not sure that his girlfriend is reciprocating those feelings or if she's just messing with him.
"My boyfriend is denser than a black hole."

"He's an insecure black hole, girl. He knows what you want him to do. He's just extremely shy and doesn't want to just assume things, lest he will make you uncomfortable. You have to be completely sincere to him, and you'll probably have to spell things out for him. Patience is key."

"Well, now he just sounds like even more of a loser."

"And you sound like a narcissist who thinks that a man has to be confident in order to be worth your time. That toxic mindset is never going to pick up any guys. Looks are nothing; personality is everything. He's a sweet guy, and you're an inflexible jackass."

"I want a man who can use his words."

"He has social anxiety. Did you know that? But by all means, why don't you go ahead and explode at him for being shy? I'm sure he would take that really well. Do you want to be the reason that someone committed suicide because they can't afford to see a therapist?"
by Ubeenbamboozledson September 18, 2021
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insecure narcissist

Narcissists may also display this insecurity through a tendency to be aggressive and controlling. Insecure narcissists often feel the need to dominate others, especially those they believe are weaker than themselves. Their aggressive nature is due in part to their fear of inadequacy and low self-esteem.
He can’t handle criticism, he always has to be right. He pretends to be dominant but really, he is an insecure narcissist.
by CoolVeggie October 15, 2022
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Insecurity

What is an insecure person? A person who is insecure lacks confidence in their own value.
Insecurity is a waste of time, you're beautiful just the way you are.
by sunghoonstoe November 19, 2021
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insecure

you
You are insecure.
by raphael_1254 June 8, 2022
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Insecurity

Yeah I'd rather be the guy who fucks you and doesn't have to deal with you than your husband. Who's dick is better? Is your marriage open so you can go out and get less good dick or is it open so you can get better dick than you can get better dick than your husband?
Hym "She want to talk about 'insecurity' or 'dick being better' but her husband is going out and throwing his less-good dick around. Ha! You need to start setting the girls HE fucks up with the guys YOU fuck. Quit hogging all the good dick to yourself whore."
by Hym Iam July 12, 2023
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Insecure

I feel insecure knowing she's happy with someone else
by oink124 November 13, 2023
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Text insecurity

When you text someone with a heightened anticipation for a quick response.
I texted you to see if my phone was working, cause "DUDE" ain't hitting me back. I waited like a whole 5 minutes.

Yo! You got that text insecurity. They probably just busy, chill out!
by HonkeyDonkeyDoo January 9, 2021
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