There are two types of attraction, physical attraction and interpersonal attraction. physical attraction you can fix to some degree and interpersonal attraction you can also fix 100%. Generally attraction can be built and used in your favour to
get what you
desire. Attraction can be learnt. Some people are more attractive than others. They call it 'value'. It is value that is importance and it is up to you to increase your value so hence make
u more attractive. How to increase your value is a whole new ballgame.
To be attractive, is to increase your value and become what people want and
desire. Its a skillset that some people have naturally or dont have at all.
If people like spending time with you and
always around you, then you are some what attractive to those people, you may not be attractive to everyone but too those people only.
Being attractive to most people is a
unique skill that not many have but it can be learnt.
In
female eyes, rock stars and
famous singers and bands have high value whereas
non-famous people have 'lower perceived value'. This value determines your attractive. You have to demonstrate value to be seen as attractive.