You meet a girl on a night out and start chatting with her, you continue talking to her attentively for several hours by then she will be in love with you and will ask you to go back to hers. When she gets you home she will be wanting sexual intercourse and will most likely get naked! At this point the alcohol will be wearing off and "Jamesman Style" kicks in. The man will then find an excuse to leave the situation and runs away. If running away is impossible you may have your penis inside her but you will not have the balls to fuck.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)