The (in)ability to influence people into action using a simple "sup?" text. While this typically refers to attempted bootycalls, it can also apply to the effectiveness in rallying lazy friends to do something with you.
Chris: Wait, you went over to her place at 3 AM last night?!
Me: Ya, man...I was already sleeping, too, but you know...
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)