The meaning of fucktoy when a man calls his woman this, depends on the context in which it's used. Far from demeaning, when said in the throes of passion, it can be a torrid word of endearment,
especially in a D/s dominant/
submissive relationship.
Jay: "Ohhhhhh, you are my Fucktoy, mine to do with as I please!" Jane: "Ohhhhh God... Say it again ... again ... use me for your pleasure. I love being your Fucktoy.
I want it so bad
I can't stand.
My pussy is throbbing for you to be inside me."