When you only like to perform
sexual acts on someone else(your partner not doing
sexual acts to you)and want to be in control of
sexual acts all together.
-this is also related to wanting a completely submissive partner (all consensual)
Many people who identify with this like to have "broken" partners, and like to be the "good part" in their partners life.
*this isn't just being a top* *close related to placiosexual*