A real man that steps up and takes care of some other guys children after having wed their mother. This man is helping his wife to raise
the children and he is either appreciated or he isn't. Not all stepdads are mean, bullies, assholes, etc. that abuse the
head of household position. There are stepdads that really do care and only want the best for his " family ". Not all stepdads are some loser these kid's mom picked up someplace. Most moms put a lot of thought into choosing the man she wants to help take care of those she dearly loves.