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Soft Guy Era 

SOFT GUY ERA- is a Man who accepts whatever a women calls him but realizes he is a King that is focused building his Castle (which is his Purpose) up until a Woman proves herself worthy to him to enter his Castle (Which also is his Pockets, Penis & Protection)

🤴💸🧎 ♀️💅🏰
Example #1

Women : I find u attractive & I see ur intelligent n go to college

Soft Guy Era Men : Appreciate it n yeah I do

Women : soo y didn’t u say nothing to me?

SGE Men : Look If u don’t have a bag or a gesture for me I’m not going for that, Have a Nice day sweetheart🤴💅

*LOL this b*tch just said I look good n found out I’m smart tf I’m coming to u fo?*

Example #2

Women : wyd?

SGE Men : heading to get my cut

Women : Ouu, I bet u finna look good make sure u send picsss

SGE Men : You not gone cash app ? Zelle or AP me…why are we still talking about it n u not gone send me money? **who tf is this b*tch* **BLOCKED**

Example #3

SGE Men : New cut ya see it

Women : Let’s go out I’m tryna take u out To Ruth Chris

SGE Men : I just paid for a $100 haircut do I look like Ruth Chris ( bare minimum place to eat ) a$$ n*gga?

Do u got a $1000 for my next cut? or Are u taking me out to STK?

Example #4

Women : * hits DMs * I’m gon be in Miami Next weekend? 👀

SGE Men : Ok? Have fun 😎✌️ if u don’t have any plans to take me to a steakhouse remove yoself out my DMs

Example #5

Women : * posts $$$ driving Benz * * hits DMs * Let me take u out on a date

SGE Men : Where we going?

Women : I got reservations..Steak 48?

SGE MEN : Ok cool we can get steak

Women : Okayyy meet u there boo

SGE : I’m here wya

Women : pulling up

Also Women : * pulls up in a 05 toyota camry*

SGE Men :* Walks out restaurant *

* we talk to b*tches that drives i8s * * b*tch go to hell **BLOCKED**
Related Words

soft guy era 

The term “Soft Guy Era” is often used to describe a King who has reached the ultimate pinnacle of enlightenment and will no longer tolerate disrespect from romantic partners. A strong, independent Soft Era King expects his women (plural) to hand money up to the pedestal on which he resides.

Kings in their Soft Era do not have time for women who can’t plan dates and drop thousands of dollars on a first date, buy him cars, golf clubs, clothes, watches, and other bare minimum necessities. He expects his women (plural) to protect and provide for him at all times anything he desires because if she wanted to, she would.

Modern households require two incomes so a Soft Guy King expects his women (plural) to hold multiple jobs and work overtime to pay for his lifestyle. He does not associate with dusties who are giving broke. A Soft Era King will block these women because he knows his worth.

In return for his Passenger Prince treatment he brings nothing to the table…because he IS the table. Drizzle Drizzle.
Simp: “How much do you spend on a first date?”
Soft Guy King: “Bro ima pretend u didn’t ask me that just now. I’m in my Soft Guy Era. Women paying for dates is the bare minimum.”
soft guy era by Softguyera May 7, 2024
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