Safe For The Invite. Used sarcastically to induce guilt in the person describing a situation or
experience for not extending the courtesy of an invitation to
said situation/experience to the person issuing the "SFTI".
Ziggy: Hey that Charity Week event was amaaazing!
Connie: Yeah was so great to mingle with everyone
Lubz: SFTI!
Rashad: DFTI! Dangerous For The Invite.. Geddit?
Safe, Dangerous?? Hahaha. And you say I'm not
funny!
Ziggy: This is exactly why we didn't invite you