to be what u r and to live with it ,whithout bothering someone,which is the "bass" of life ... and then comes the drum
why don't u practise selfness , instead of payin' for wellness
by cherry_berry December 07, 2009
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The field of psychology attempts to define it with circular definitions. The truth is, we don't really know how to define self... not objectively at least.
In a few words, self is consciousness. Consciousness escapes objective description (poor example: your experience of the colour red, is it the same as mine?). If a definition requires an objective description, then self is un-definable.
Get your fine self over hear!
by GT1979 June 22, 2004
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The act of selfsucking, autofellatio
Hey did you see that guy selfing online tonite?
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Selfed to be self-sufficient self-reliant. To make your own way.
Man Joey totally selfed that situation.

Jon didn't need anyone he selfed it he's a total boss.
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When a homosexual male curves his cock downward over his taint into his ass.
Person 1: My ass is sore. Person 2: Why’s that? Person 1: I had a mighty fine in-self session.
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verb - when a person acts for one’s self and/or one’s people as best one can with the tools available with neither selfless or selfish intentions thereby removing positive and negative connotations from the choices made and thereby creating a third option which takes relativism into account. Selfing is the process by which one pursues their personal and community well-being while functioning in social and physical life that does not ignore large and same scale ethical challenges as one tries to do the best they can with the tools available to them.
Ex1: “It blows my mind how much I've said no to people who've asked me to help with things or give them things these last few months but selfing like this has helped me get back to who I was before I got into that bad relationship."

Ex2: “Yeah I’m selfing right now with all the money I'm saving from my job and budgeting to stay on top of things so my living situation is almost at the point where I’ll never have to worry about not having a place to stay ever again and I’m even getting a good work/life balance; if my parents would just stop calling me every single day, every other is enough mom. ”

Ex3: "Sometimes I can't believe I keep the rent paid, the utilities and internet connected, food on my family's table and my medical insurance up to date and can still go out and have fun with my job and budget while I navigate the confusing world of end stage capitalism and try and find a balance within my ethics and but I think I'm being pretty decent at selfing so far.”
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