The loneliness a queer person experiences as a direct result of being queer, often brought on by lack of options, queer-born insecurity, etc.
Evan was deep in queerwoe on Friday night, so much so that he listened to ‘Nobody’ by Mitski thirty-seven times in a row, until he cried himself to sleep.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.