1. a politically-correct term to suggest that one acts, dresses, talks, or is stereotypically gay with the moral but selfish intention to be considered respectful, open-minded, and/or to have manners.
2. a passive-aggressive, Freudian, and/or
sarcastic, yet elusively clever way to suggest that one acts, dresses, talks, or is stereotypically gay with the immoral but honest intention to be spiteful and
nasty, display one's bigotry, and/or project their own self-hate and/or insecurities.