Noun: A fruity term of endearment used for friends (loved ones) to show you care. Not necessarily used for significant others or family members. Used primarily by females. Sometimes used to add humor or embarrass people.
Ex: You're the best lover nut.
Ex: Come here lover nut.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.