When I have a headache, I turn to my favorite natedication, onions and vodka, instead of taking the classical panacea Tylenol or Advil; same spiel when I have a cold.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.