Milkhead originated in Philadelphia, 2004AD. The actual phenomenon was born 1990 AD. It is used for specific losers (lo-ser) who can be described in no other way except for Milkhead.
It is commonly used for girls who have no idea what they are talking about.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.