menticizing 

the act of thinking you are mentoring someone, when you are actually just criticizing them ...

Dr. Mark L was doing his typical menticizing yesterday, badgering me about all of the things I did wrong with my important demo, but ending it by telling me he has big plans for my career.

menticizing by CMIF LM November 18, 2021

Mentalizing 

Some random ass thing Eli made up

Eli was mentalizing before practice

Mentalizing by [pah ake November 16, 2021