an acronym for the phrase "how mad are you?" used to find out the extent of someones anger in an aggrivating situation. Pronounced h-may.

1. An acronym used to reflect the four words; i.h - how, ii. m - mad, iii. a -are, iv. you.

2. Used in an insulting manner or in manner of ridicule to described an individual's increasing anger, frustration, anxiety, or animosity.