A verb used to describe the action of having too hot food in your mouth. The word refers to the sound you make when you try to cool down hot food while it's already in your mouth.
"I usually hashafaf my food until it's cool enough to eat".
"Hashafafing often burns my mouth".
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.