harshing my zen Share definition Flag disturbing a person's tranquility with negative comments or actions When I am being friendly and helpful to you and you stab me in the back literally or figuratively, then you are harshing my zen. harshing my zen by 67Shelby June 2, 2008 0 0 Get merch Get the harshing my zen mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch