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A partner with whom you share erotic enemas, often as a part of anal sex and exploration. An enemate is usually a well-educated and enlightened person who enjoys anal pleasures and fun.

Participants usually take cleansing enemas prior to engaging in erotic enemas, so the activity is not dirty or messy.

Enemas can be given for pleasure to enemates who enjoy sharing true intimacy with their partners and who enjoy the feeling of warm water and fullness enemas bring, along with the feeling of cleanliness and purity that comes with the release. Most enemates find enemas to be relaxing and enjoy sharing the experience with someone special. Anal sex sometimes occurs between enemates, but not necessarily. For some, only the enema experience is what they crave.

Some enemates enjoy expelling in front of their partner or having their partner expel in front of them, but many prefer to expel in private.

Some also enjoy using suppositories, as well as enemas.

Some enemates enjoy sharing enemas in BDSM scenes and use them as punishment or for humiliation, possibly forcing the submissive to hold the enema for an extended period of time, often giving them a task to finish before they may expel, such as pleasing the dominant orally. The domininat may give the submissive an uncomfortable enema solution or amount to hold or make the submissive wear a butt plug or other device to assist them in retaining the enema. A dominant may also humiliate the submissive by forcing her to expel the enema in front of him or her.
My enemate Michael came over this weekend and we had some extended enema fun. I took a few cleansing enemas before he arrived so I knew I'd be nice and cleaned out for him. He gave me a two quart Dr Bronners peppermint soap enema that tingled and felt incredible. I was so relaxed and more than ready for anal sex.

I gave my submissive enemate a two quart soap suds enema last night, put a butt plug in his ass and hold it for fifteen minutes. He was begging for mercy, but I made him lick my cunt and make me cum before I let him expel.
enemate by egirlky March 3, 2007
Words you can keep
a feeling or condition of hostility; hatred; ill will; animosity; antagonism.
enemite, animosity
enemite by mooky1 February 19, 2009

enemarexia 

Patterned after "Anorexia" and "tanorexia." A semi-disorder characterized by an insatiable need to undergo enemas, often associated with a fear of uncleanliness when playing the passive role in anal sex. Usually refers to self-administered enemas, but not always. Common among anal retentive bottoms. Occasionally but not necessarily coincident with Klismophilia.
Following a messy and embarrassing experience with his boyfriend, Derek developed a case of enemarexia.

That guy seems like such an enemarexic; I'd bet he takes two hours each day to "cleanse himself".
enemarexia by mr80h September 26, 2005
A ritual dark ambient band from China. It's only member, Li Chao, is also in the black metal band Evilthorn.
That band Enemite is freakin' AMAZING!
enemite by Daniel P. July 20, 2006

enematerialize

the act of flushing all unnecessary clutter thus de-constipating your life!
I think I need to enematerialize my garage so that I can fit my nice new car in it.
enematerialize by Norsky2010 February 13, 2010

enemaster 

A abbreviation of the phrase "enema master" (see enema) this is a individual or person who has mastered the enema, such things like coffee or beer no longer effect this near inhuman hero.

"Mistress Nia tried everything, but could not get the enemaser to submit"

"Ouch! He’s taking that like a enemaster"
enemaster by White Cultist April 30, 2007

Enemaler 

A tube use to either inhale ones own farts or another person's farts.
"I have to get a new Enemaler RIGHT NOW! This old one is clogged up with fart dust and the party starts in an hour!".
Enemaler by MR.ZERO July 26, 2011
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age gate 

An absolutely foolproof way to keep minors from viewing content deemed "too mature" for them to watch.
Billy: "So I was trying to watch some videos for an M rated game, and I ran into an age gate, so I put in my real birthday. SOMEHOW it managed to figure out that I am 12. CURSE YOU AGE GATE!!!"

Bill: "Fucking age gate! *quick scroll* THERE! I was born on January 1, 1904. Fuck you age gate."
age gate by Banja January 7, 2011
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board chow 

A)
The Crud that collects under the keys in a keyboard. Usually more severe in the keyboards of programmers and webmasters as they tend to spend a lot of time at the the computer and thus eat at their desk. Mainly affecting IBM Model M (clicly) style boards.

B)
Can also be used to gross out Non-Techie people
A)
Bill: want to go to the club?
Bob: No, I've got to clean out my board chow, keys are starting to stick.

B)
Bill: Want to go out to get a bite?
Bob: No, i am just going to have some of my board chow/
Bill: Whats' that?
Bob: The food scraps that collect in my keyboard; Want some?
Bill: *GAG* *HURL* *GAG*
board chow by BinaryHackerMan September 3, 2007
Word of the Day on August 26, 2026

young pup 

a young person, a young adult in their late teens/early 20s.
Ah, you're just a young pup at 23!
young pup by the dog May 30, 2006
Word of the Day on August 25, 2026
West Midlands slang word for rockers, bikers, greasers etc. In the late 1980s it was used by the UK music press to refer to a specific scene centered around the bands Pop Will Eat Itself and Crazyhead. The term never found favour with readers of 'the inkies' (Sounds, Melody Maker and the still extant NME) and was soon dropped. Now often used in predominantly working-class areas of the midlands and the north to mean someone who listens to rock-derived music and/or dresses in a manner that suggests they affiliate themselves with rock music of some kind.
Some grebo passed with Sabbath playing on his stereo.
The Poppies are at no. 17? God, a grebo band in the charts!
They're playing nu-metal now, bloody grebos!
grebo by cactuscat September 15, 2006
Word of the Day on August 24, 2026

TikTok Farlands

TikTok Farlands is a term to refer to videos that you see after scrolling for a long time. These videos can potentially be disturbing, or weird. Said videos can also have low likes, or low comments.
“I reached the TikTok Farlands bro”
Word of the Day on August 23, 2026

mormon assault vehicle

another term for a station wagon, mini-van, or any other kind of vehicle that is targeted at the "family" demographic(also M.A.V.)
"Tactical advantages aside, the M.A.V. is top of the line for the holy warrior troop transport manufactured by the Church of Latter Day Saints Military Industrial Complex. Also great for family trips...to heathen lands."
mormon assault vehicle by KVRX January 10, 2005
Word of the Day on August 22, 2026
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