DOMINANT BOTTOM

A person who's dominant in a relationship & is the receiving partner. Those who identify as one are commonly engaged in BDSM relationships as d-types (i.g. master, owner, daddy) with submissive partner(s). Dominant bottoms are best paired with submissive tops & may tolerate switch tops. In a 24/7 power exchange, the submissive top is their ideal.

This term can be synonymous with power bottom, based on the person's view of their identity.

A misconception of this identity is believed bottoms are submissive (psychologically) by default - stems from ignorance. No person is identical - in their preferences, identity & sexuality. Top & dominant are separate (& vice versa) - here's how. Top / bottom is the role of giving or receiving. Dominant / submissive is the role of authority or compliance. These two spectrums can be mix-matched like pizza toppings.

MARK: What am I exactly? I enjoy being his bottom & having him do things for me, yet I’m the dominant in our relationship.

JEREMY: You’re a dominant bottom, Mark - & your top is submissive. You prefer being passive, ordering him around & he enjoys complying at your discretion.

MARK: What? I never thought of that.

JEREMY: Yep. Think of it as you’re the King sitting on the throne - & he’s your servant grooming you head to toe, running errands for you.

DOMINANT BOTTOM by ITERNO_X January 27, 2022

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Dominant bottom

A dominant bottom is the term used for whenever someone acts like they would be a dominant, or top in a sexual relationship, but are secretly submissive, or a bottom.
Not at all to be confused with power bottom.

You know Tom? Yeah, his girl says that the "tough-guy" act is a huge lie. She said he was a "dominant bottom," and likes getting pegged.

Dominant bottom by Aplhre March 3, 2019

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Dominant female bottom

Basically a DFB is a woman who loves sex while being on bottom / missionary (plain Jane) but while being on bottom she is still in full control. She’s demanding in a sexy way, and sometimes demands her man to talk dirty.

I love taking control when he’s on top I’m the most legit dominant female bottom.

Dominant female bottom by SantiGold November 5, 2017

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Dominant Female Bottom

A woman who loves missionary Sex , she take control of sex while and telling her man to talk dirty etc that’s called an Dominant Female Bottom

Im totally a dominant female bottom with my boyfriend . I make him talk dirty and bam.

Dominant Female Bottom by SantiGold November 5, 2017

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Toe Rag

A toe rag was originally a foot wrapping used, since mediaeval times up until the mid-nineteenth century, to protect the foot from chafing by boots or shoes. As these were, quite literally, rags they weren’t usually washed, and so with use they became very smelly until they were thrown away. Because of the similarity in smell, toe rag also became the name applied to dried, salted cod or other things with a strong, unpleasant, fishy smell. It didn’t take that long before the name was applied to someone who was an obnoxious, unpleasant OIC.

1 “Socks! Those aren’t socks you smelly git, they’re toe rags!”
2 “What have you been cooking? Smells like toe rag!”
3 “I can smell ‘er fanny from ‘ere, proper toe rag.”
4 That Heale Malcolm is a right toe rag.

Toe Rag by AKACroatalin November 29, 2016

Word of the Day on July 24, 2026

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Eternity leave

When some resigns or retires from a job, they are on "eternity leave". This can also refer to someone who has passed away, especially someone who worked somewhere for a long time, retired/resigned, then passed away later.

Oh I'm sorry, you didn't know that Kelly is on eternity leave? She resigned and moved to Hawaii!

With regrets I would like to inform you that my boss is officially on eternity leave. I will never see or hear them again. Ever.

Eternity leave by LingDanc803 February 7, 2023

Word of the Day on July 23, 2026

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jody

The hypothetical man (often a sinister character who decided not to go to boot camp) that is doing your girlfriend/wife while you are on deployment overseas.

Ain't no use in goin home,
Jody's got your girl and gone.
Ain't no use in goin back,
Jody's got your Cadillac,
Ain't no use in feeling blue,
Jody's took your checkbook too.

jody by Sgt Apan March 31, 2006

Word of the Day on July 22, 2026

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