DOMINANT BOTTOM

A person who's dominant in a relationship & is the receiving partner. Those who identify as one are commonly engaged in BDSM relationships as d-types (i.g. master, owner, daddy) with submissive partner(s). Dominant bottoms are best paired with submissive tops & may tolerate switch tops. In a 24/7 power exchange, the submissive top is their ideal.

This term can be synonymous with power bottom, based on the person's view of their identity.

A misconception of this identity is believed bottoms are submissive (psychologically) by default - stems from ignorance. No person is identical - in their preferences, identity & sexuality. Top & dominant are separate (& vice versa) - here's how. Top / bottom is the role of giving or receiving. Dominant / submissive is the role of authority or compliance. These two spectrums can be mix-matched like pizza toppings.

MARK: What am I exactly? I enjoy being his bottom & having him do things for me, yet I’m the dominant in our relationship.

JEREMY: You’re a dominant bottom, Mark - & your top is submissive. You prefer being passive, ordering him around & he enjoys complying at your discretion.

MARK: What? I never thought of that.

JEREMY: Yep. Think of it as you’re the King sitting on the throne - & he’s your servant grooming you head to toe, running errands for you.

DOMINANT BOTTOM by ITERNO_X January 27, 2022

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Dominant bottom

A dominant bottom is the term used for whenever someone acts like they would be a dominant, or top in a sexual relationship, but are secretly submissive, or a bottom.
Not at all to be confused with power bottom.

You know Tom? Yeah, his girl says that the "tough-guy" act is a huge lie. She said he was a "dominant bottom," and likes getting pegged.

Dominant bottom by Aplhre March 3, 2019

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Dominant female bottom

Basically a DFB is a woman who loves sex while being on bottom / missionary (plain Jane) but while being on bottom she is still in full control. She’s demanding in a sexy way, and sometimes demands her man to talk dirty.

I love taking control when he’s on top I’m the most legit dominant female bottom.

Dominant female bottom by SantiGold November 5, 2017

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Dominant Female Bottom

A woman who loves missionary Sex , she take control of sex while and telling her man to talk dirty etc that’s called an Dominant Female Bottom

Im totally a dominant female bottom with my boyfriend . I make him talk dirty and bam.

Dominant Female Bottom by SantiGold November 5, 2017

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bang a you-ee

of Massachusetts orig. "to make a u-turn"

hey, we missed the bar, bang a you-ee

bang a you-ee by Pistolero Pierro May 4, 2008

Word of the Day on July 19, 2026

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Fleg

The word 'flag' as pronounced by people with thick Belfast accents. The term is a perfect encapsulation of the disproportionate and overblown reaction to the removal of the Union Jack (as in 'de fleg') from above City Hall in Belfast. Where previously it had flown for 365 days per year, it is now flown on 17 designated days of the year - in line with many other British cities.

The event caused a portion of the Protestant community ('fleggers') to make international pricks of themselves as they proceeded to wreck the fucking place, claiming it was another erosion of a 'British' identity they perceive to have been under attack since the horrifying spectre of equality reared its head in Northern Ireland.

The word 'fleg' - and indeed 'fleggers' - fittingly describes a section of humanity unconcerned with knowledge, reality or the vagaries of the English language. Like America's tea-baggers they are ruled by instinct, fear and paranoia with a side dish of rampant bigotry and startling ignorance of the world around them.

"Wat de fuck like! The taigs got de fleg took down! Let's wreck de fuckin place! No surrender!"

"De fleg has been took down! Before ye know it there'll be a united Ireland! Attack Short Strand! God Save The Queen!"

Fleg by OnionFleg August 9, 2013

Word of the Day on July 18, 2026

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Skeef

To take something small, that doesn't quite qualify as a theft. Probably from the Danish "skæv" or the Dutch "scheef", both of which are pronounced similarly, meaning "askew, or not quite right'. To change an item's ownership without permission, but only something small and of little worth.

"I skeefed an apple off the neighbor's tree." "I skeefed some chips outta your bag when you looked away." "Don't skeef my chair when I go to the bathroom."

Skeef by kachinaflonk July 16, 2026

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