The term originated in Montreal's neighborhood "The Schlague" before widly spreading in most urban cities. Used to described the crazy way of life of one or multiple persons.
"You want to come over ? We're having a party tonight "
"But it's Monday."
"Yeah, you know, datcray life."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.