Usually found in the phrase, "What's the big tadoo" or "It was a big tadoo." It means a big deal; making something seem very important. OR it can be a party or shindig.
Alice shouted, "I just ate lunch!" Bob replied, "So, what's the big tadoo?"
Boys who enjoy yaoi (a genre in Japan that contains sexual and/or romantic relations between two men); literally translates to "rotten boy"; corresponding female : fujoshi