big hot mess 

a place/person/school/town/group that has loads of drama that people "complain" about but in reality everyone (or most people) love it because all the crap keeps it interesting

person 1: all this shit is just gettin' annoying
person 2: nah, it's a big hot mess--you learn to love it
person 1: true---keeps life interesting

big hot mess by chickadee47 June 7, 2009

big hot tranny mess 

A phrase used to describe someone who has done nothing wrong.

Phillippe to Lyle: "You're a Big hot tranny mess"

Lyle smiles.

big hot tranny mess by GypsySCUM March 30, 2014