This is the ultimate n word pass, it shall be given from the darkest person at your college, school, or whatever education level your at. This gives permission to say the N word around anyone, except when your legally speaking, please dont.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.