When you greet someone with a handshake and they don’t want it. So you grab there hand forcefully and shake hands anyway.
‘Did you see scummo on his latest meet and greet. He was rapeshaking his way around town one victim at a time’. ‘Keep your hands in your pockets kids, otherwise scummo will rapeshake you’.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)