When you greet someone with a handshake and they don’t want it. So you grab there hand forcefully and shakehands anyway.
‘Did you see scummo on his latest meet and greet. He was rapeshaking his way around town onevictim at a time’. ‘Keep your hands in your pockets kids, otherwise scummo will rapeshake you’.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.