A man who performs feminist adjacent behavior for clout or self-image, but becomes emotionally avoidant the moment a woman expresses a need, boundary, or feeling.
He is feminist coded but not feminist operational. He is presenting the aesthetic of an ally while lacking the follow through, accountability, or emotional depth required to actually support women.
In essence:
“The diet version of a feminist man - emotionally zero calories.”
A man who performs “I respect women” like it’s a spoken heart felt poem,
but emotionally behaves like a damp paper towel with a superiority complex.
He is feminist coded but not feminist operational. He is presenting the aesthetic of an ally while lacking the follow through, accountability, or emotional depth required to actually support women.
In essence:
“The diet version of a feminist man - emotionally zero calories.”
A man who performs “I respect women” like it’s a spoken heart felt poem,
but emotionally behaves like a damp paper towel with a superiority complex.
(adj.)
1) He calls himself an ally, but his attachment style is aggressively pro-feminative
2) Girl, he’s not deep — he’s just pro-feminative. That’s diet feminism mixed with hot-and-cold energy.
3)His behavior aligns with what scholars refer to as pro-feminative tendencies: supportive in theory, avoidant in application.
4) He talked about respecting women the whole night and then forgot to ask a single question about me. Peak pro-feminative.
1) He calls himself an ally, but his attachment style is aggressively pro-feminative
2) Girl, he’s not deep — he’s just pro-feminative. That’s diet feminism mixed with hot-and-cold energy.
3)His behavior aligns with what scholars refer to as pro-feminative tendencies: supportive in theory, avoidant in application.
4) He talked about respecting women the whole night and then forgot to ask a single question about me. Peak pro-feminative.
by CerebralChaos December 11, 2025
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