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Pro-Feminative

A man who performs feminist adjacent behavior for clout or self-image, but becomes emotionally avoidant the moment a woman expresses a need, boundary, or feeling.

He is feminist coded but not feminist operational. He is presenting the aesthetic of an ally while lacking the follow through, accountability, or emotional depth required to actually support women.

In essence:

“The diet version of a feminist man - emotionally zero calories.”

A man who performs “I respect women” like it’s a spoken heart felt poem,
but emotionally behaves like a damp paper towel with a superiority complex.
(adj.)

1) He calls himself an ally, but his attachment style is aggressively pro-feminative

2) Girl, he’s not deep — he’s just pro-feminative. That’s diet feminism mixed with hot-and-cold energy.

3)His behavior aligns with what scholars refer to as pro-feminative tendencies: supportive in theory, avoidant in application.

4) He talked about respecting women the whole night and then forgot to ask a single question about me. Peak pro-feminative.
Pro-Feminative by CerebralChaos December 11, 2025
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🤡🫵🏻

How to say "you're an idiot/clown" using only emojis.
Person 1: Insert completely incorrect and/or idiotic statement here
Person 2: 🤡🫵🏻
Word of the Day on June 1, 2026
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
fogey by Petyush September 14, 2005
Word of the Day on May 31, 2026
Add a tablespoon of jarlic to two teaspoons of butter and spread it in bread to make garlic bread
Jarlic by YSAC fanboy June 6, 2020
Word of the Day on May 30, 2026
An armpit enthusiast — typically of the scent, appearance, and touch of hairy underarms.
That dude’s such a pitpig, I have to wear deodorant to keep him at bay.
Pitpig by wimbledon May 28, 2026
Word of the Day on May 29, 2026

You the birthday

You the birthday-you the point, you the topic, the reason we here, can be used as a compliment / u looking good or silly/trolling
Nah fr, you the birthday, you got all the attention.
You the birthday by Dev-in April 4, 2026
Word of the Day on May 28, 2026

church hurt 

church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
Word of the Day on May 27, 2026