going out for a quiet drink knowing full well that you are not in a fitstate to drink!!
A guy meets a girl in the pub for a few drinkies! She arrives late so he has a couple beforehand without eating all day. Eventually she arrives looking beautifull!! the banter goes down well but so do the drinks!!! lots of drinks! tequilla shots homemade coctails and much more!! The bar man went crazy!! so it comes time to leave in the early hours they all get home safely?! but they all have a story to tell in the morning one of them was sick in the bed, one urinated allover his floor in his bedroom and the other was sick allover his bathroom floor. They were larruped.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.