A common phrase on the coast of Maine. Used when one lobsterman greets another. Another variant that is often used is "Hey there bud". It is important that these are both pronounced with a great Maine accent.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.