An operator who manipulates others by appealing to emotions, using visual and verbal hypnosis techniques to obviate discussion or analysis of the root causes of problems.
Ronald Reagan was the 'communicator,' the Bush child called himself 'the decider.' Barack Obama? The 'hoperator.'
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.