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Black fragility
when exposing black peoples racism they respond by claiming black people cannot be racist as a way of deflection
Black fragility by wakandankang December 27, 2020
Black Fragility
Black Fragility is the social, intellectual, spiritual, emotional, mental & physical inadequacy of (some) Black people. This fragility is a byproduct of their environments & upbringings.
Displays of Black fragility are but not limited to 1. when Black people get triggered when their ways are called out, 2. when they’re asked to meet certain standards, 3.when their distorted sense of reality is challenged.
Black fragility can also look like, a Black person always bringing up the topic of the Transatlantic Slave Trade & “white supremacy” as excuses, as to why are the way they are.
A Black person living in perpetual victim hood & wants to be coddled by society.
False bravado etc… nothing that some therapy can’t fix.
Displays of Black fragility are but not limited to 1. when Black people get triggered when their ways are called out, 2. when they’re asked to meet certain standards, 3.when their distorted sense of reality is challenged.
Black fragility can also look like, a Black person always bringing up the topic of the Transatlantic Slave Trade & “white supremacy” as excuses, as to why are the way they are.
A Black person living in perpetual victim hood & wants to be coddled by society.
False bravado etc… nothing that some therapy can’t fix.
Example of Black fragility & False bravado:
“ I’m a king.” yet is unemployed & still lives in his mother’s basement.
“Black have the best bodies.”
Though subjective, is reflective of low intellect… adding such value on something as trivial & fleeting as looks/the flesh.
“ I’m a king.” yet is unemployed & still lives in his mother’s basement.
“Black have the best bodies.”
Though subjective, is reflective of low intellect… adding such value on something as trivial & fleeting as looks/the flesh.
Black Fragility by Lolasrythereufknbrusselsprout January 4, 2022
Black fragility
Displays of Black fragility are but not limited to 1. having a hard time dealing with the truth behind most Black stereotypes.
2. Distorted sense of reality.
3. The delusion of Black “supremacy”.
4. Calling foul(racism) when things don’t go their way.
5. Not contributing to a project/s but expecting equal stakes, reminds me of the story of ‘The Little Red Hen’.
6. Easily triggered when faced with facts, or called out on their ways …
7. Wanting to be held to “lower”standards
8. Holding themselves & other groups of people to double standards.
2. Distorted sense of reality.
3. The delusion of Black “supremacy”.
4. Calling foul(racism) when things don’t go their way.
5. Not contributing to a project/s but expecting equal stakes, reminds me of the story of ‘The Little Red Hen’.
6. Easily triggered when faced with facts, or called out on their ways …
7. Wanting to be held to “lower”standards
8. Holding themselves & other groups of people to double standards.
Examples of Black fragily & the distorted sense of reality:
“Black men are kings/ Black women are queens”
“Black people can’t be racist.”
Examples of Black fragility & the double standards:
‘Causing harm, using derogatory terms to address people but having a hard time being on the receiving end.’
“Black men are kings/ Black women are queens”
“Black people can’t be racist.”
Examples of Black fragility & the double standards:
‘Causing harm, using derogatory terms to address people but having a hard time being on the receiving end.’
Black fragility by Lolasrythereufknbrusselsprout January 4, 2022
white fragility
(Derogatory) The belief that all white people are inherently evil, racist, monstrous, and inclined to genocide, and therefore they can't suck it up.
Believers in this idea don't stop to think that people are sick of this stereotype and that talking about race makes them uncomfortable despite being against racism. It has also contributed to ethnic tensions within society.
Believers in this idea don't stop to think that people are sick of this stereotype and that talking about race makes them uncomfortable despite being against racism. It has also contributed to ethnic tensions within society.
white fragility by PlexPlexian November 14, 2022
Frazel
Frazel is the ship of Frank Zhang and Hazel Levesque from the Percy Jackson Heroes of Olympus series. Frank and Hazel go with Percy on a quest, where Hazel kisses him. They get together, even though their relationship is threatened with Leo Valdez. (Lazel)
Frazel by Not-Rick-Riordan July 14, 2013
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Soul digger
A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
Soul digger by anonymous November 11, 2026
Word of the Day on November 11, 2026
pod person
A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
dead drop
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.
Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.
A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.
A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.
A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.
A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026
No Surprises Wedding
A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.
This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.
Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
No Surprises Wedding by dbdefenestrate August 27, 2023
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
ulzzang
Ulzzang true definition is "best & "face" = best face in korean. They are basically people with above average looks, sometimes with the use of photoshop and haduri who post their pics online, some becoming internet celebrities.
ulzzang by `r i k kit t y February 26, 2008
Word of the Day on November 7, 2026