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emotionally gay 

A man who undervalues women emotionally because he prefers the company of men to women intellectually. Emotionally, he is drawn to men and tends to surround his normal activities such as dining out, shopping, etc. with men; but usually he is heterosexual and his sexual preferences involve women.

Many emotionally gay men also use derogatory terms like "bitch" to describe women for lack of understanding them or relating to them.

And many are also suffering from a form of Madonna Whore syndrome because of issues with their own mothers.
Young men who need a "crew" are emotionally gay.

Men who stereotype women as "bitches and hoes" are emotionally gay
emotionally gay by La Gabacha January 26, 2011

emotionally gay 

to be emotionally gay is to be very sensitive when it comes to emotions, especially when it comes to a girl.
Fred is a man's man, but when it comes to his girlfriend he is emotionally gay.

Emotionally gay 

When you’re just very hyped and supportive Towards a friend with out having any physically attraction
Taylor was way too emotionally gay about Camila.;)
Emotionally gay by Lily1130 October 18, 2018

Emotionally gay 

Person who's not actually gay but he's emotional , man can be emotional too
You're emotionally gay or I'm emotionally gay
Emotionally gay by Sumxrth May 16, 2021

Emotional Support Gay 

The gay guy whose emotional strength is extracted in order to prop up his less resilient friends, co-workers, family, or strangers.
“I can’t constantly be your emotional support gay, Karen. It’s exhausting.”
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Brought to public attention by Bob Woodward and Carl Bernstein in the book on the fall of Richard Nixon, All The President’s Men, ratfucker was Nixon’s term for a political operative who sows chaos among opponents; an agent provocateur. It is thought to have originated among campus political rivalries at USC, and seems to have some usage in the US military.
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