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A female dominant in a BDSM relationship.

Pronunciation varies; usually it is pronounced 'Dom', but sometimes may be pronounced 'Dom-may' to stress the difference between the female and male Dom(inant).

'Domme' usually refers to a non-professional female dominant.

A professional female dominant is usually referred to as a 'Dominatrix', or a 'Pro-Domme', but may simply be called 'Domme' by her close associates or clients.
My Domme flogged me for being cheeky to her friend
Domme by cave_canem October 5, 2009
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female dominant in a BDSM relationship
(usually spelled as a proper noun, e.g. 'Domme', as is it's male counterpart, 'Dom')
Michael only addresses his Mistress as 'ma'am'; he calls other Dommes by their given names.
Domme by Aileen April 21, 2003
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female dominant in a BDSM relationship. see wordDom/word
Gina is a Domme, but she enjoys being the bottom once in a while.
Domme by Aileen April 21, 2003
In the BDSM / fetish world, it is a Female Dominant who professionally works with submissive clients.
Also known as a "professional Dominatrix."

The term "Domme" is often confused with "Dominatrix".

A "Dominatrix" just is a Female Dominant who fulfills the Dominant role in a personal relationship or perhaps a career.

It does not imply that She IS a professional.
Domme is a term used SPECIFICALLY for the professional variety, meaning she is paid or compensated for Her services.

The terms Domme, Dom, Domina, Dominatrix, and Dominant are *always* capitalized in proper BDSM grammar, btw.
--- I used to be a college professor, but now I am a Domme. The pay is better and I do what I do best for a career now!

--- Laura is controlling and Dominant in her relationship with Her boyfriend billy. She doesn't want to quit working at the restaurant, so she'll just be a Dominatrix with him.

--- Every year Dommes from across the country go to a BDSM event called DomCon.

Domme by Me in Atlanta March 17, 2009

Domme Gatekeeper 

A wrinkly, saggy, middle aged, jobless whore who peaked in the 80s and thinks just because she owns a pair of leather boots and a gimp mask, that she’s better than anyone else who attempts to learn more about the bdsm fetish.
Sandra is a real Domme Gatekeeper, she belittles other dommes and is the reason the community is rotting away. She ought to get a grip, she’s 42 and her kids are fed up of having to hold the camera whilst she pretends to whip it and calls it a ‘sissy slut’.

domme sloep 

A very badass car
Ah, Stella Vita is echt een domme sloep ouwe
domme sloep by Philozopher August 5, 2022

money domme 

A Money Domme is a female financial dominatrix, alternatively called Money Mistress. In a financial domination dynamic, the Money Domme is the dominant personality, and the moneyslave or paypig is the submissive.

Princess Sierra otherwise known as Bitchy Beauty was the first Money Domme to establish financial domination online in the 1990s. She was followed shortly by Eurasian Goddess Farah, and thereafter by Princess Katana otherwise known as A Cruel Beauty. Since that time other well known and established Money Dommes include Diamond Diva Princess, Goddess Mz Devon, and Princess Jersey.
The Money Domme enjoys the transference of the fruits of the labor of her moneyslave paypig, and this servitude gives the submissive moneyslave fulfillment, the joy of working hard for his Mistress.
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