comparenting 

When parents constantly compare the way they are raising their children to the way other parents are doing so.

Her parents were so caught up comparenting that they failed to recognize their own shortcomings.

comparenting by FreshWords January 1, 2025

coparenting 

A term used by single mothers to try to justify their shitty parenting technique or guilt their baby daddy into doing things their way.

Derek only got to see his kids once every few months because his babymomma thought the best approach to coparenting was limiting his time with his children.

coparenting by Dadsgetshiton November 16, 2021