A man that is so thoroughly pussy-whipped by his girlfriend that it boarders on slavery. This is in reference to, Kunta Kinte, a fictional Gambian man who was born in 1750, enslaved, taken to America and renamed Toby by his master.
Pussy-whipped friend: I'm sorry I have to get rid of our NBA season passes because my girlfriend says we should I should only be spending time with her
Ditched friend: Every decision you make now is exactly what your girlfriend tells you to do. You're so pussy-whipped that I should just call you Cunta Kinte.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.