CheDere is a nice pretty person who doesn’t take crap from anyone she’s always sleeping and will always be a loyal great friend who’s super goofy and funny once you get to know her even though she may seem mean she’s super nice.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.