A wealthy (older) guy who has not
come out of the closet yet, but is an active
homosexual. The word is a contraction of the Dutch word 'chanteren' (to blackmail) and the Moroccan 'habibi' (friend, lover). The chantahabibi has a decent job, and maybe a wife and some kids, and seeks his relief primarily among young Moroccan boys to avoid his straight and gay world
accidentally colliding.