The
definition of care is very subjective and complicated, just like Humans. The
way they process, the way they think, the way they act. It's all different, all unique. But so is how they
love. Humans are assholes, its almost as if that's their nature. But once an asshole always an asshole so, when they want to show
love, some are assholes. Some Humans cry to show care. Some might be nice, as to not
hurt their feelings, and be the best them. When they try and show care, they listen, and are rational. While some may confuse it is as being
mean, being angry when showing
love, comes from poor affection, or none at all when a child. They come from a place of hate so they speak from one as well. But they try and give the reason they feel angry, to seem as if they were so angry they care. Last but not least, the
fake ones. The ones with an ulterior motive, to make them feel
better about themselves. We all know who. They are the people that you have to be cautious around. Some may or may not
mean what they say. When you think they meant it, then find out they didn't, knowing how to control how you feel, and accept it is a great defence against those who are there just to break you down. What I'm trying to say is that many people care but they show it all differently. When it comes to sensing the
fake ones, you have to trust your gut, but defending against them requires rationality. But care cannot be defined objectively, it can only be seen for what it is
1.A You're so
pretty it makes me want to vomit.
2.A I'm genuinely
sad that I'll never look as good as you.
3.A You look really nice.
4.A I hate that you look so much better than me, you're so pretty that it sucks
1.B She cares about how you look so bad that it makes her
sick.
2.B She cares about how she looks and thinks you look way better than herm
3.B They're being genuine.
4.B