The gangster form of Bryan. The kind of guy that can turn your best day into your worst day. The kind of guy that will not be there for you no matter how big or small the situation. He's quiet, extremely smart, sly, and the most selfish person you could ever meet.
Me: watch out for that one. He’s not a good Bryan.
Ms Collins: Ah, ok, so he’s a Bryanster?
Me: yep. Better warn the others that we’ve found a Bryanster.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.